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Chrume | 7th Mar 2010, 19:12 | LOVE | (5 Reads)
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Chrume | 28th Oct 2009, 00:28 | LOVE | (9 Reads)

我知道她有了小孩子,,應該生活不錯..

而你,又如何呢?

早排我認識了一個新朋友..佢大你一年,佢自己一手一腳搵錢,今時今日已經可以退休..
我同佢傾我地既事跡,無疑你一定係ass..但係你更是無聊幼稚...如果你自命聰明既話,退休個個更加應該係你..人地坐擁過億身家都唔會玩女人更會講一句...叻既男人唔應該花時間係女人身上
佢高傲自大咖..但佢自得起囉..希望有一日我地再遇見既時候,你唔係仲做緊一個sales仔..
雖然我深明任何一個成功人士都必定係個sales..even banker business man~

祝所有人都快樂~

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Chrume | 14th Oct 2009, 00:07 | LOVE | (12 Reads)

從小就喜愛由屋內可以直接走到出沙灘海邊既感覺..我們都很開心和熱切期待這個潛水之旅..多謝我未來的另一半emotion
同時間我收到你的電郵,當然是有一下子'odd'的感覺,但轉眼間其實我和你都已成獨立個體,而且早就各不相干,如果你有意令我難受,我只好說你幼稚,這樣的人我不屑與你交往!但另一邊,我但願你是出於真心的..所以我都回覆了你,fred.happy newly married


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1.他懂得尊重你:他對你的愛比要求多,他對自己有主見,對你則不會太有主見。他尊重你作出的各種人生選擇,鼓勵你發展自己的專長。現代好男人的一條重要標準是,尊重所有的女性,包括僅有一面之緣的人。

2.他的追求很有誠意:他不屬於你十分喜歡的異性類型,但是他追你追得很有誠意。他有你前任男友的優點,但沒有你前任男友的缺點,而且他有的優點,很多人都沒有。

3.他對你噓寒問暖,關愛體貼:他已經很熟悉,雖然沒有了熱戀的心跳感覺,但他確實比任何人都關心你,在你苦惱時,他永遠站在你這邊,耐心傾聽你倒苦水;他記得你提過的朋友名字;你渴時他輕輕遞上茶水……這些都無聲地傳達他真心喜歡你的信息。

4.你的家人朋友欣賞他:長輩們經風歷雨閱人無數,眼睛自然比你毒。你對他很挑剔,但他卻很能夠贏得你朋友、家人的欣賞。他懂得讓每個人心情舒暢,懂得給人安全感。從性格上說,他不是一個非常易變的人,不會讓你覺得很難把握和相處。

5.他提很多對你有益處的要求:他對你要求很多,但是都很合情合理,而且這些要求對你有好無壞。這樣的男友是真心愛護你的。

6.他胸襟開闊,寬容忍讓:兩人發生爭執,通常是他最先讓步。他懂得如何表達自己,並耐心聽你說話,如果你是對的,他能夠承認錯誤;即使你不對,他也願意原諒你。有話可以好好講,不會動不動就拉下臉來,送你一臉的表情暴力。也不會為一點小事發脾氣成賭氣,自虐虐人。

7.他有自己的愛好,有運動的習慣:有某種運動愛好的男子,較容易找到情緒的出口,不會沒事找事的折磨你,和一個心中有熱情的男人在一起時,日子就會充滿樂趣。一個能在生活中找到自己愛好的那人一定會給人生機勃勃的感覺。

8.他對感情無怨無悔:一個男人一輩子會有多少次戀愛,他在不斷的實踐中獲得經驗讓自己完善起來。「專一」的定義並非是他只能一生愛一人,而是每愛一個人的時候他都一心一意。如果他曾經有過刻骨銘心的感情經歷,並為此真心付出過,那麼至少可以證明他是個深情,敢於承諾的男人,一個願意為感情破裂分擔部份責任的男人。

9.向他傾訴是安全的:他能開誠佈公地與你溝通,他懂得傾聽,知道甚麼時候該說話,甚麼時候該閉嘴。你不會害怕對他表達,當你和他分離自己的感受與思想時,能覺得安全。良好溝通的基礎是信任,在他面前,你確信不會因為表達內心深層想法而遭受到嘲笑或傷害。這就叫安全感。

10.不會因為朋友而忽略你:他有正常的社交圈,有彼此信賴的好朋友,也重視他們,但他不會為了朋友而把你晾在一邊。他能夠獨立思考和行動,而非唯朋友是從。並且,不需要你耳提面命,他就能清楚掌握女朋友與異性朋友的分界。

以上種種...Anki都做得到,而且稱職!他是一個大男人,正人'君'子~我很高興他一直陪伴著我療傷(你),讓我知一個真正愛自己既人是怎樣?但願你真的成長..我見過查理斯和ida他們說對了

甚麼都可以變,感情可以變,你們都可以變..新婚快樂!


Chrume | 5th Oct 2009, 01:47 | LOVE | (21 Reads)
當我以為完了..又碰上錯的人...正想close file既時候...他回來找我...送我一只戒指,一條鍊..當我不為所動,他再對我說..似曾相識...我報了tour..揀了hotel..我們一起去samui
但他講得比你確實得多!因為我清楚知道他是那一種人..............但你們所講所做的都很像
這一刻,我知道他比你好..

Chrume | 2nd Oct 2009, 03:13 | LOVE | (18 Reads)

人在中環- CK

低級客人

Customer service這個詞語到底解作甚麼,對我來說似乎變得越來越模糊。如果所謂好的客戶服務,包括要我的員工,受無理的言語羞辱,甚至人身攻擊也要照單全收的話,那樣我寧願放棄向客人提供所謂「高級」的客戶服務了。

麻煩的客人都有一種特質,就是階級觀念很重。面對前線「服侍」他們的同事,這些客人自覺階級在同事們之上,於是說話可以肆無忌憚地人身攻擊,同事們也奈不了他何。這些客人所恃的,是覺得這些前線同事「級數」低,如果得失了客人,她們會受到上級的責備。前線的同事當然也很無奈,事關對於客人何謂「過份」的定義,即使是她們的上級,往往也很模糊。老實講,在我而言,對於所謂「過份」的底線,也時不時會改變。生意好的時候,底線會拿得緊一點,生意不好兼且競爭激烈的時候,就連底線也會放得鬆一點。有時正正就是我們這些管理人,給予下屬這種模糊的界線,讓前線服務客人的同事,多少有點無所適從。即使真的面對極無理的客人,也不敢「企硬」捍衛立場。

低級的客人還有另一個特質,就是自信心不足。他們動不動就說自己「沒有受到應有尊重」,繼而大吵而鬧。他們知道前線同事唔話得事,恃住這一點就不停出言羞辱她們,又說要找個高級一些的職員來「服侍」自己。也許這樣他們才自覺有面子吧。我有時覺得奇怪,當我派一個真正「話得事」的職員去對付這些麻煩客人,那個「話得事」的同事往往會更直接,更斬釘截鐵地拒絕這些客人的無理要求。然而當那個麻煩客人知道面前那個職員職位較高時,他們居然又會乖乖就範,不敢糾纏下去。我有時想,你面對職位較低的那些同事時那份氣燄,到底去了哪裡?到底你是欺善怕惡,還是狗眼看人低?

 

 

make sure u eat..stay warm..i always beside u :)
take care at your work

 


Chrume | 28th Sep 2009, 04:22 | LOVE | (9 Reads)

pretend nothing..?nobody knows whats my feeling...

i always feel bad...i still love you
but you never know~im regret many things deep inside..do you know what i really want..........
i want you back i want time can turn back i want many things..i think too much~but i still want~


Chrume | 27th Sep 2009, 02:53 | LOVE | (9 Reads)
we act like nothing...

Chrume | 14th Sep 2009, 02:47 | LOVE | (8 Reads)

 

my heart was broken since all over...when im in pain stay alone..when lost,is that painful..i never felt it...really really tired i cant stop thinking of you

Long bday is coming ... is mine too


Chrume | 28th Aug 2009, 23:41 | LOVE | (9 Reads)

I feel wonderful because I see
The love light in your eyes.
And the wonder of it all
Is that you just don't realize how much I love you.

 


Chrume | 22nd Aug 2009, 01:16 | LOVE | (4 Reads)

呢個星期我食左韓國野,泰國野,葡國野,上海野,日本野,西餐...

就算失去最愛最痛,但今日依然幸福...多人錫,晚晚有街去,有車喳..男朋友我都有,自由度很高,既有人關心又可隨心所欲..多謝..


Chrume | 14th Aug 2009, 00:37 | LOVE | (7 Reads)

i wanna cry...not because Anki..yeah something happened but it didnt make me upset~hm..i think too much

i dun reli care what you said what i said..i love you i love you so much...all become bullshit when over!i dun say anything it doesnt mean i dun love you!


Chrume | 9th Aug 2009, 21:58 | LOVE | (1 Reads)

你令我..甜言蜜語變得無味...
對我做咩都變得無希望..
愛...視如無物

 

 

 

ninja natto..
you sent me too much


Chrume | 5th Aug 2009, 23:22 | LOVE | (4 Reads)

今日突如其來既電話...又係多得Alan既幫助~車手!勁!

 

聽到d 野..but i have no feeling..~你唔值!
宜家..一個愛我既人多過我愛佢,所有野都看得更輕~not bad!~!

今晚去食生蠔...新鮮..~

 


Chrume | 3rd Aug 2009, 20:16 | LOVE | (5 Reads)

他離婚...

 

 

 

我喳左佢架車走....喳"2289"番工...
love?love too late?


Chrume | 1st Aug 2009, 01:42 | LOVE | (9 Reads)
The rain falls on my windows
And the coldness runs through my soul
And the rain falls, oh the rain falls
I don’t want to be alone

I wish that I could photoshop on
Our bad memories
Because the flashbacks, oh the flashbacks
Won’t leave me alone

If you come back to me
I’ll be all that you need
Baby, come back to me
Let me make up for what happened in the past

(Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
I’ll be everything you need (Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
Boy you’re one in a million (Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
I’ll be everything you need (Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
You’re one in a million
(You’re one in a million)

Memories I have of Manhattan
She goes shopping for new clothes
And she buys this, and she buys that
Just leave her alone
I wish that he would listen to her
Side of the story
It isn’t that bad, it isn’t that bad
And she’s wiser for it now

I admit I cheated (admit I cheated )
Don’t know why I did it (why I did it)
But I do regret it (do regret it)
Nothing I can do or say can change the past

(Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
I’ll be everything you need (Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
Boy you’re one in a million (Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
I’ll be everything you need (Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
You’re one in a million
(You’re one in a million)

Everything I ever did
Heaven knows I’m sorry but
I was too young to see
You were always there for me
And my curiosity
Got the better half of me
Baby take it easy on me
Anything from A to Z
Tell me what you want to be
I open my heart to be
You are more priority
Can’t you see you punished me
More than enough already
Baby take it easy on me

Baby take it easy on me
Baby come back to me
Baby come back to me

(Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
I’ll be everything you need (Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
Boy you’re one in a million (Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
I’ll be everything you need (Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
You’re one in a million
(You’re one in a million)

(Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
I’ll be everything you need (Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
Boy you’re one in a million (Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
I’ll be everything you need (Come back)
Baby come back to me (Come back)
You’re one in a million
(One in a million)

Chrume | 27th Jul 2009, 02:43 | LOVE | (4 Reads)

hope u dun forget what we did, dun forget what we ever had,and call me anytime,tell me whatever you want?pens..or when you have hard time...i m  here and will be here...i m not want to turn all back ,i knows is impossible...

anyways,thanks for talk with me b4,take care of me..help me to do the stuff..miss u....call me sometimes...just be friends...will support u always

also my mind..ha!ya i loved you...but i never hate you and still want to keep fds with you forever~


Chrume | 25th Jul 2009, 23:20 | LOVE | (3 Reads)

就如某人說..it's really cheap....if we say anything like no matter what we will wait...even he has another gal...sounds cheap..and we r not!
When i m in pain i say nothing and stay alone few days..I thought you cant imagine that when lost..is that painful?....I cant stop thinking,felt tired but cant sleep well~cant eat...anyway,maybe i m not good in love for you so...
all the things are passed, thanks for you change my life style thanks you let me experianced the sadness
Now,i m alright n. more mature...lived without you

 

Aiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii.ypu treat me very well...but i m sorry.. 
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Chrume | 24th Jul 2009, 01:08 | LOVE | (8 Reads)

呢個星期好free.好開心..每日番工就係play game...同anki仔講電話...~又訓到好晏先番工~~~前日去左Pearl(Peak)HEHE哈哈~..~由頭盤就食到dessert...望住香港夜景,really romantic place!what nice dinner~!
應該係同你..但係
時間人物都change la..no regrets..
最尾,仲要上頂of 山頂 吹風...nice view!hahahahaa

今日Alan黎同我食lunch..同埋公司人~上個week先因為一個m記比左四百五,佢今日又黎..真勇~

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 hahaa?..anyway, i love you but love too late
今晚如常,anki傾電話..唔明點解helen...人係咪真係咁貪心?舊既唔放手,新既唔知足..係要玩火?幸好....passed you, fucking hurt me..but i till believe man(Anki)....hope he isnt the flower heart guy!no wishes would be better..........
I m very clear what I want to do and I also have a very strong determination to make something happen or not happen


Chrume | 23rd Jul 2009, 01:16 | LOVE | (25 Reads)
i have ever a hundred percent believe you and loved you..so much
But in the end I can still feel the pain...i duno what i have done was so wrong you need to hurt me like that?even i stand up already....the fact that i cant accept at all....but i accepted

Chrume | 14th Jun 2009, 23:55 | LOVE | (9 Reads)

他問我喜歡健康生活嘛..我坦言我enjoy..
起因..你令我戒酒,你令我早訓..但我無後悔我失去自己,我改變左原來既自己,但我好感謝你!
我亦唔會再飲番酒..~會keep good health!

今日我地都放假..佢去做gym我去跑步..早d回家講電話~12點前大家一齊訓覺~


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